Porn addiction is usually fueled by masturbation addiction. There are
very rare men who use porn without masturbation. Many women in a
relationship feel that their partner’s use of porn is adultery. However,
men do not believe they have committed adultery. An addiction to
pornography can not be overcome immediately. To understand porn
addiction one has to understand what is the reason behind porn
addiction. The usual reason behind porn addiction in most cases is
masturbation. Let's take a closer look, in order to masturbate you
either use porn or make up fantasies in your head. Most addicts prefer
porn rather than making up fantasies in their head. When you use porn
you masturbate. Not because porn "hijacked" your brain and made you
masturbate, the real underlying reason for you using porn is because you
wanted to masturbate that is why you used porn. The main reason behind
porn addiction is masturbation addiction because you need to use porn in
order to masturbate. If you are addicted to porn and masturbation you
need to first correctly overcome masturbation addiction then you can
stop your addiction to porn. It is impossible to stop porn addiction
without first correctly stopping masturbation addiction.
The pornography addicted person becomes so occupied with looking for the
next fantasy that they spend hours and sometimes days searching the
internet and wasting thousands upon thousands of dollars, destroying
their relationship and in some cases risking their job and getting into
legal trouble. That very same time and money can be spend much better
once the person overcomes porn addiction.
How To Overcome Pornography Addiction
To overcome pornography addiction, first you need identify if you are
also addicted to masturbation. Usually the force behind porn addiction
is masturbation addiction. If you are addicted to masturbation and want
to stop your porn addiction, you will need to overcome masturbation
addiction first. You can not stop porn addiction without first dealing
with masturbation addiction. A very few men who do not masturbate and
use only porn. It takes time to overcome porn addiction. If you install
porn blocking software, cut off cable or get rid of the TV, it will not
help in the long run. Even if all the porn in the world was gotten rid
of you will just make up fantasies in you head to fulfill your sexually
addictive interest.
Masturbation Addiction
The following questions will help you evaluate whether or not you're addicted to masturbation.
-Is masturbation a hobby to you?
-Do you do it when you are bored?
-Do you feel like, "I need to masturbate," the same way an alcoholic feels, "I need a drink"?
-If you are single, do you prefer to stay home and masturbate rather than go out and try to build an intimate relationship?
-Do you experience masturbation hangover (disoriented, fatigued, and stressed after masturbating)?
-Do you wish you could go a week without masturbating?
-Do you masturbate to the point of exhaustion?
-Does masturbation cause you physical pain?
-After you have sex with your partner do you need to masturbate?
-Do you prefer masturbation to having sex with your partner?
-Does masturbation hinder you from having sex with your partner?
-Are you impotent with your partner but capable of masturbation?
-If your partner turns you down for sex, do you find that you must masturbate?
-Do you sneak masturbation in at work? Do you do it in the car or in public places?
-Do you rely on masturbation to relieve stress?
-Does masturbation get in the way of accomplishing the things you want to do?
-Do you wish that your partner or people you meet were as exciting as your masturbation fantasies?
-Do you feel proud of yourself when you are able to not masturbate and feel unhappy when you do masturbate?
If you think you have a masturbation addiction. Don't beat yourself up.
Addictive masturbation is not a sin; it is not perverted or disgusting.
It's a problem, not a moral weakness. Don't treat yourself like a
horrible person. You have a problem, nothing more - or less. Addictive
masturbation takes a great toll on a person, but don't expect yourself
to overcome a masturbation addiction today. It takes time. You're better
off understanding that you are not ready than you are demanding the
impossible of yourself. Don't avoid relationships because you have a
masturbation problem. You can still build a good relationship even
though you are struggling with masturbation addiction.
A person addicted to masturbation believes that in order to stop he or
she must stop the behavior for period of time. Some believe they must
refrain from all sex for a short period of time in hope of stopping the
addiction. You have been acting addictively for years. You have nearly
destroyed your healthy, comfortable lifestyle in order to indulge in
this addiction. Addiction has become very important to you. Stopping
just the behavior essentially is not enough. You need to deal with the
underlying issues for your masturbation addiction. That does not mean
you need to look in the past or your environment. Licensed therapists
advise people that if you want to stop your masturbation addiction, just
have sex with your wife or girlfriend instead of masturbating. That
advice not only makes your addiction worse but your lovemaking with your
partner also cheapens to just a substitute of your addictive behavior.
Overcoming masturbation addiction increases sexual pleasure in your life
because you can satisfy your natural sexual need for intimacy and
actually feel good about it.
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